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This book aims to increase families’ awareness about sexual abuse and teach children to “tell it” if it occurs. Tamar’s story is re-told in 2 parts: the first is a prevention narrative emphasizing truth telling; the second half is specifically for families and counselors/therapists to help children who have experienced sexual abuse. Care has been taken to avoid “too much” information for young readers (7 years &older). We believe it is best for parents and counselors to decide what detail about sexual abuse is necessary and appropriate for each child. First, read the online Discussion Guide at ALetterFromTamar.com. Next, review A Letter From Tamar. Then, browse the online Discussion Cards for suggested concepts to emphasize while reading the book to your child. Finally, read the story to your child/ren.

 

A Letter from Tamar is only part of a total care plan for victory over sexual abuse. Reporting sexual offenders can bring about much conflict, but is a necessary step in rebuilding trust and a sense of safety for the child. This sexual sin is criminal, and holding an individual accountable to the justice system can protect others and offer him or her an opportunity to receive help. We pray this book will help parents and therapists bring the power of God’s Word and Biblical values to prevention efforts and the healing process.

 

If your loved one has been sexually abused it is important to consider first, the present and future safety of your child or teen. Preventing contact with the offender should begin immediately to cease further harm and potential physical and emotional consequences. This point is crucial for both the child and caregiver to understand. Secondly, a plan to help your child can begin with an assessment at your local Child Advocacy Center. These centers specialize in obtaining the necessary evidence for the legal process in a manner that is especially sensitive to abused children and their families while initiating any needed medical care, counseling services or other social supports. If no Child Advocacy Center is available in your area, a professional with training in child trauma, such as a pediatrician, psychiatrist or licensed counselor can help determine what interventions are appropriate.

 

Blessings and wisdom to you,

 

M.Ojinga & Dionne Harrison MD